Children's sports can start out as an enjoyable activity and turn into an overly competitive chore that is not fun for far too many kids.
Pointing to the increasing pressure and competition involved in children's athletics, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that parents do not push children to specialize in one sport, at least until they reach adolescence.
Overall, any physical activity is better than watching too much television. Organized sports contribute to physical fitness while developing basic motor skills. In addition, it can help your child with learn leadership skills, self confidence, and the importance of teamwork and sportsmanship. It will also teach them the importance of success and failure.
In making its recommendation, the AAP cited research showing that young children who participate in a variety of athletic activities and delay specializing in a particular sport until adolescence tend to:
In some cases, parents pressure their children into playing sports and having a "win at all costs" attitude. This type of pressure, though, takes away the many benefits of participating in an organized sport, like being part of a team, exercising, competing, and having fun.
There are steps that you can take, though, to highlight these benefits:
Instead of having your child specialize in one sport, encourage him to participate in various sports and/or athletic activities.
Organized, competitive sports for young children can also have its down side.Consider a series of questions to help determine whether your children's athletic activities are beneficial or harmful:
Here are other tips:
Make certain your child's coach and league are creating a safe and enjoyable atmosphere. Ask yourself the following questions:
If you discover that a coach or league is violating any of the above ground rules and safeguards, speak to the coach or supervising organization about the problem and, if possible, offer to help. If, after doing so, the problem is not solved, remove your child from the situation and find another team or league.
In addition to coaches, parents must practice good sportsmanship and acceptable behavior when watching their children participate in sports and athletic activities.
American Academy of Pediatrics
National Alliance for Youth Sports
Public Health Agency of Canada
The American Academy of Pediatrics Committee on Sports Medicine and Fitness. Intensive training and sports specialization in young athletes. Pediatrics. 2000;106:154-157.
Being a good sport (spectator): A quick guide for parents. American College of Sports Medicine website. Available at: http://www.acsm.org/access-public-information/articles/2012/01/13/being-a-good-sport-(spectator)-a-quick-guide-for-parents. Published January 13, 2013. Accessed October 21, 2013.
Choosing a sports program. American Academy of Pediatrics Healthy Children website. Available at: http://www.healthychildren.org/English/healthy-living/sports/Pages/Choosing-a-Sports-Programs.aspx. Updated August 1, 2013. Accessed October 21, 2013.
Parenting my champion: getting started. Institute for the Study of Youth Sports at Michigan State University website. Available at: http://www.educ.msu.edu/ysi/parents/USTA_parent_checklist.pdf. Accessed October 21, 2013.
What makes a good coach? Nemours Kids Health website. Available at: ttp://kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/sports/good_coach.html. Accessed October 21, 2013.
Last reviewed October 2013 by Michael Woods, MD
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